​​​​​​​Tantra Coaching Sessions

My approach to Tantra coaching is highly practical and effective, allowing you to make big shifts immediately.

I provide sex coaching for couples in a variety of formats – talks, workshops and Skype consultations.

I use Tantric sex teaching to provide general sex coaching, as this gives much better results that teaching conventional sex. It makes your sex life easier and better than normal sex.

I also give very comprehensive and practical coaching to couples who are looking specifically for a Tantric sex teacher. I pride myself of teaching very practical and realistic Tantric sex that leads to a richer sex life, more love and connection in sex and a sustainable sex life that survives in a long-term relationship in real daily life.

During the sex coaching I am very focused on a couple’s particular problems – or their aspirations and what they want to discover, if there are no problems.

You don’t want to learn about Tantric sex just to do something exotic, or because you like going to new age workshops. You want to get real value and benefit in your real life, you want a real change for an even better quality of your relationship. Or maybe even a solution, real and effective.

This is what I focus on, a real practice that you can apply in real life, with no time wasting. And in one coaching session between me and you I deliver to you real practice that you will take home and use immediately, tomorrow, to experience a better sex life and a better relationship.

Tantric Coaching for Women

Have you ever thought about sex “Is this it?”  You are not alone. Women are often conditioned to be ‘good girls’ from an early age, and to not ask for what we want. The message is that if we follow our desires, it will get us into ‘trouble’.  So many women learn to ‘settle’ for things in life; sex and relationships hat aren’t even deeply fulfilling. ‘It’s good enough’ is a phrase I often hear.

This can leave women struggling with sex and intimacy, inhibited, unable to relax or enjoy ourselves, not talking about it, even shutting down and avoiding intimacy completely. 

Many women don’t know how to create the sex and intimate life they want; they may not even know what it is they want or what is actually possible. In our culture sex is ubiquitous, yet positive role models of female sexuality are few. We have no helpful sex education, so how can we truly enjoy sex when we don’t really know what we are doing or learn what we love. Few have had the opportunity to learn and explore their sexual and heart’s desires in a supportive and inspired place.

Our busy lives aren’t fertile grounds for great sex and intimacy either. We are often stressed, unable to switch off, often stuck in negative thinking, disconnected from our bodies with little time for pleasure, and when we find time for pleasure, we are often feeling guilty about taking time for ourselves or unable to relax.

You may be experiencing the following:

  • No/low libido
  • Poor/no sex
  • Poor body image
  • Don’t like your genitals
  • Low/no sexual confidence
  • Performance anxiety
  • No orgasms with self and/or partner/s
  • No/little pleasure in sex or life
  • Shame and guilt about fantasies or experiences
  • Challenges with sex and intimacy after life changes (childbirth, illness, menopause, ageing etc)

You want:

  • Your sexual concerns and worries to be a thing of the past.
  • Freedom from shame, guilt and worry about sex. to feel good about who you are.
  • To awaken or reignite your sexuality and feel sexually confident.
  • A supportive space to discover who you are as a sexual being, what you really want and how to communicate and express that.
  • The best sex and intimacy education.
  • To move beyond goal orientated pleasure.
  • To know that there is more.
  • To know what that it is and experience truly fulfilling sex, intimacy and pleasure.
  • To let go and enjoy yourself.
  • To learn how your partner/s (current or future) desires, pleasure and sexual psyche works so that you can create incredible pleasure together
  • To unlock the vitality and potency of your sexual energy, your life force; for your sexual ‘beingness’ to be integrated into your whole life
  • To live more fully – you don’t want life to be the same as it is 5, 10 , 15 years from now

You’re looking for someone who’s ‘been there’, who’s got the experience and expertise to support you in a space to listen without judgment. You want support from someone who sees and believes what’s possible for you.

The good news is this is not just in sex and intimacy. Sex is intimately connected to all aspects of your life so this work ripples out in positive ways.  My clients regularly experience more of the following in all aspects of their lives:​​​​​​​

  • Confidence
  • Love
  • Happiness
  • Pleasure
  • Compassion
  • Peace of mind
  • Fun
  • Relaxation
  • Meaning
  • Courage
  • Honest communication
  • Fulfilling relationships and deeper intimacy
  • Vitality, health and well being
  • Fulfilling careers
  • More of what they love in life

If you are feeling the call to make changes in your life, or you are curious to see if this is really possible for you, do get in touch. It may be that not all the above is true for you, but some of it resonates. I take on clients who are ready to invest in themselves and make changes in their life. Are you ready? Get in touch to find out more about this bespoke Sex and Intimacy Coaching Programme, designed just for you.

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Tantric Coaching for Men

Traditional approach to sex names common problems in men like:

  • Erectile dysfunction
  • Premature or delayed ejaculation
  • Lack of sexual desire
  • Porn addiction
  • Low libido

A traditional approach to sex only considers the instinctive attitude to sex. Medical doctors and traditional sex therapists reveal that we all need to function in a reproductive way: men should have a good erection and ejaculate always, women desire to be approached by men with a powerful big penis and give them orgasms.


No wonder so many men and women experience disappointment, fear, pain and shame!


The philosophy of Tantra and the Lovemaking Practice removes all conditions called sexual dysfunction. Clinical doctors try to restore your reproductive qualities through medication. Traditional psychologists discuss at length your past experiences reminding you about your pain, shame and complexes. But, the Tantric approach is to consider the past irrelevant, the now being important. Where the traditional goal of sex is to function for arousal and orgasm, Tantric Lovemaking is to love - in love there are no problems, no age differences, no difficulties. Even if a man or a woman have experienced for months or years sexual problems traditionally named as sexual dysfunction, they may be surprised that these problems may not surface at all as they learn Tantra, even after just one session. I am not a magician. Your body and the body of your partner are magicians! But, you do not know how to open this magic in you both. To establish Tantric Lovemaking into a regular experience, couples or individuals need to go though a course of practical physical sessions. 


I create a personalized course for you to develop their intimacy into Tantric Lovemaking. It is not treatment for sexual dysfunctions. It is much more. It is a new life. The coaching will help you to regain confidence and overcome your specific sexual problems by developing your intimate relationships into Tantric Lovemaking. The process of learning is joyful, gentle and a sensual journey together with your partner. Even the most sensitive and distressed people would find a safe and caring place on my coaching.

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Tantric Coaching for Couples

For Couples, Tantra Coaching is a melding of eastern meditation and tantric practices, as well as psychology insights into a session – or a series of sessions – to aid couples and individuals in achieving the levels of love, intimacy, sexual fulfillment and healing that they desire. Each couple will learn the pieces most needed for the successful blossoming of their relationship. Individuals will be able to gain insights into their limiting beliefs and learn spiritual insights and practices that will make them fall in love with themselves completely, which in turn will make attracting a fitting partner effortless,  if they so choose.


While the word ‘Tantra’ is commonly used today, its meaning is as varied as the people who use it (for a fuller explanation, read the section entitled ‘What is Tantra?’). In a nutshell, ‘Tantra’ is learning the art of using all of life, including our sexual energy, as a path to love of self, love of others, love of all of life. It is a path to the Sacred. On a purely practical level, it would be true to say that Niyaso simply helps people with their sex lives.


You might even call her a sex therapist, as her work often involves helping people with some of the practical questions or difficulties that can arise with sex, listening to what concerns them and teaching them about the graphic details surrounding these issues. What’s more important to her though is that she teaches people how to use the difficulties and joys that arise in their sexual and intimate relating as doorways to deepen the love between them, and so also deepen their understanding and care for themselves, and their connection to the divine. As a general guide, sessions may include:


  • Energy exercises (understanding and opening energy flow)
  • Breathing exercises
  • Centering meditations
  • Active listening
  • ‘No blame’ communication
  • Tantric exercises
  • Learning about the dynamics of yin and yang
  • Learning how to stay in your power and inner truth while relating
  • Understanding your emotional patterns in relationship
  • Information about sexual issues
  • Learning how to open your body
  • Understanding the interplay of emotions and sexuality
  • Problem solving for difficulties
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